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    Posted: 15-Nov-2005 at 10:44

I tried to stay out of this topic (redundant) but now I have an urge to say a thing or two.

Two issues: Turkey banning head scarfs; and Islamic understanding of sentences that some choose to accept as 'headscarf'.

By making this first point short and sweet, I'll say that Turkey has been on the defensive against fundamentalism from the beginning of the Republic. Part of the developement of it's political culture consisted on clarifying it's language, doctrines and state authority. The headscarf issue falls under this catagory. It is a secular (laik) law refraining from wearing it while in and on governmental duty and university settings. Other then that, the headscarf is allowed anywhere else. Opinions currently vary on the headscarf banning and the accompanying impact it has had. I think that the government is being protectionist. If and when governmental ideology matures further, dependant on percieved or legitamate threats to its constitution, then the headscarf situation will not be such a grave issue.

 

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the Scholars are not making or saying anything new here, they are more like collectors of the events and what the prophet did, what his companion understood from each verse and how did they obay any orders mentioned in the Quran.

so abou the Hejab or Head scarf, most of the scholars has mentioned that when this order came women started covering their hairs and neck. starting from the prophet's wifes.

so its clear that they understood the verse as an order to cover their hair with a veil as an order not as a suggestion from God.

Many scholars had already wore the headscarf prior to turning moslem. Jewish and Christian women had already done so in their past. The moslems borrowed this tradition to the tee. Same for most Arab men and women prior to Muhammed. They wore hijab as a custom. Not because of their own religious beliefs.

 

The order for the prophets wives to cover themselves are the following: 

-  [7:26] "O children of Adam, we have provided you with garments to cover your bodies, as well as for luxury. But the best
garment is the garment of righteousness. These are some of GOD's signs, that they may take heed."

- [24:31]

"And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and keep covered their private parts, and that they should not show-off their beauty except what is apparent, and let them cast their shawls over their cleavage..." 

Which means they should (Khimar) cover their chests.

- [33:59] "O prophet, tell your wives, your daughters, and the wives of the believers that they shall LENGTHEN their
garments. Thus, they will be recognized and avoid
being insulted. God is Forgiver, Most Merciful."

The Arabic words used for cover are "KHuMuR" (to cover). One can cover a floor with a rug and cover a chest with clothing for example. In 24:31 "fel yedribne 'they shall put, they shall cover' is used. However in verse 33:59 "fel yudnine 'they shall lengthen' is used. The first is to cover the bossom and the next one is to lenghten garments. Specifically varied phrases for different sentences carry meanings appropriate to each context. 

The word 'Hijab' was not used. The words for 'hair' was not even used in the above aya (verses). The word "Hijab" appears in the Quran 7 times, five of them as "Hijab" and two times as "Hijaban," these are 7:46, 33:53, 38:32, 41:5, 42:51, 17:45 & 19:17. Yet none of those are in the context of a dress code. 

In summary and contrary to what was suggested by others, covering hair is not a commandment.

 

as i said it is Clear in Arabic, also The Quran came in Arabic language the exact one the people used to talk 1400 years ago. which means they would understand it much much faster and easier than today's Arab may do.

The Quran is still clear. 

[12:2] "We have sent it down an Arabic Quran, perhaps you will comprehend."

People of the past and present can still analyze the Quran. It is not the domain of past scholars to interprete it only.

Muslim scholars have many opinions about women that are often degrading and insulting. i.e.- comparisons to dogs, can't pray at certain times, abominations, etc. Though such scholars have much good to say too, I still focus on the negative to highlight the rediculous beliefs that still exist in the muslim mentality.

The Quran, on the other hand, permits men and woman to eat together or to help each other (24:61; 3:195; 9:71). The Quran provides several examples of women being active role models in their societies and were interacting with men, such as Abraham's wife (11:69-71; 60:4-6), Muslim women in Madyan with one whom Moses married (28:23-28), the Queen of Sheba who later surrenders to the will of God (27:34:40), and Mary (19:16-30; 3:42-43; 66:11-12). Muslim women were so outspoken that they could engage in debate with Muhammad (28:23-28), and women pledged allegiance and voted for Muhammad's leadership (60:12).

With respect to all the believers we still have the duty to enhance social rights and question inhibiting actions that impact the standards of living for all sexes. Modesty has been encouraged. But fear and insecurity (secular or traditional Islamic) can and should take a back seat to open discussions and freedoms. 

 

 

 

 

 



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Originally posted by ok ge

I respect your view on nudity (god I hope you are joking though )


No I'm not joking. When weather helps I do enjoy being totally or partly naked. I always go to beaches that allow nudism and do not wear anything at all there.

Clothes are just an option, specially recomended to withstand the weather.


For me, I retain my realistic view that nudity is unacceptable thing on public and a tastless behavior. Only animals that can enjoy being naked (if they do even realize it). I dont think I would love to watch my female 50 years old professor giving me a lecture while she is nude or my 60 years old grandpa to come nude or my parents too. This is going back to premitive stone age. Wait, even in the stone age they used furr to cover up



Well, Greeks were shocked that some "barbarians" (that is foreigners) used to bath with clothes, for them it was a nonsense.

You have an education and a social background that makes you think that way, the same that my own background makes me see burkhas and hijabs as an aberration contra-natura.

Anyhow, where climate helps, total or rather partial nudity is common. Often sexual parts (or other body parts, this varies much from culture to culture) are hidden or decorated somehow (but not always). In harsh climates clothes were a must but that's just part of the wide cultural adaptability of humankind. But in tropical climates, clothes are totally prescindible and among natural tribes often not very much used. This is not any sign of barbarism but just an appropiate custom.

Also in Western societies there's been several naturist currents that strongly promote nudism. They are relatively minoritary but anyhow must be taken in account just as any other ideology, philosophy or religion. You won't find naturist beaches in the Muslim world, not even in Turkey, but you will find many anywhere in Europe. And women breast exposure is now a commonplace, in any kind of beaches and swimming pools.

I agree that not all bodies are equally pretty but not all faces are either, yet we don't hide them. And as the (Spanish) refrain says: even if the monkey dresses in silks, monkey still is.

Get used to it.

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Originally posted by gcle2003

(The Christians get out of this to some extent thanks to the doctrine of the Holy Ghost, but Muslims can't claim that.)


The Holy Ghost, just love it. The most uncertain element in all Christian (Trinitarian) doctrine. It's almost a true Pantheist element... even it could be considered with delight by Chaotists.


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I must say that I also enjoyed the post by Seko. This is the kind of Islam that I find respectable: the open minded one.

I understand from Seko's quotes that the message is to emphasize spiritual beauty over purely animal beauty, something that I find very respectable and that I can share. I guess that you can be very spiritual in absolute nudity and you can be very animal under all kind of covers. And not that "being animal" is necessarily bad (unless you are a violent beast) but just maybe less subtle or "divine".

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I would like to know what is the big deal with the headscarfs and covering of breasts, and all the yards of materials women have to wear in order to be considered "modest and proper women". Clothing does not make a woman, her mind and character does. Just because a woman uses a Headscarf and covers her breasts and flesh does not make her a "modest or a good woman". I can be wearing an itsy, bitsy, teeny weeny yellow polka dot bikini and still have better morals, be completely faithful and loyal to my partner, and be a better and happier person than someone who is trapped in an impenetrable armored suit and not showing any flesh at all, merely to satisfy a delusion of modesty. I think (and this is my interpretation only) that it is the males who do not want their women looked upon by other males and therefore make them wear lots of clothing to cover them from the eyes of other males. I think it all boils down to pure jealosy among males. Treating females like possessions must give males exhuberant feelings of power and control, and that feeling must not be compromised in any way. I find hipocracy in that!

As far as nudity is concerned, we are all born naked. Males and females exist in most species. It's no secret that males have male organs and females have female reproductive organs. We all come in different shapes, color, and sizes - what't the big deal? I still have not seen anyone being born fully clothed yet.    We are the only "species" who have decided to put clothing over our flesh to appease society's acceptance of "proper behavior". I can understand putting clothes on for protection from the elements...sun, rain...etcetera....but the truth is, we humans wear clothing because it is the acceptable way that society dictates - some are more strict than others.

I've seen documentaries of tribes still in existence who run around completely naked all the time and it is completely acceptable! There's little rape in such communities,the body is looked upon as a tool for survival in life, and the children aren't even fazed by it. I find no hipocracy in that!

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I guess that you can be very spiritual in absolute nudity and you can be very animal under all kind of covers.

I agree, as the Sufi saying goes:

'I have seen many men without any garments on them, and many  garments with no men in them'.

Don't judge Islam too fast, Maju.

Having said that, as an atheist, I support religious garment ban on government employees and schoolchildren (under 18). The rest, including universities and non-officials in government space should be free.

If you reduce the problem to individual freedom vs state oppression, of course it follows that everyone should be free to do what they like. But this world, in which the individuals are free and the state is the evil oppressor this is just a liberal-bourgeois fantasy world. In the real world, individuals are oppressed by many actors besides the state. The family forces the little girl to cover up, the village community forces the young woman to cover up, traditions decreed by people who died a thousand years ago dictate what the individual does or thinks. If the individual emancipation is important, as you all agree, the state can be a liberator as it can be an oppressor. The state can show people that their little village is not the whole universe, they won't get killed by a thunderbolt if they take their headdress off. It is very important to know (and see) that it is indeed possible to live a different life, if they want to, and the state can do this, through economic support, education, example, creating opportunity, etc.

Only when the individual has her economic, social, sexual, conceptual, etc. freedom, can we call her decision a free one. So in, say the UK, where much of this is real, a woman's decision to wear the headscarf may mean something. Without that, as is the case for many people in rural Turkey, it is so much empty talk.  

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Clothes does not make you a modest person or an educated one. However, dressing "modestly" is something else. It is like: please act responsible. That does not mean you are a responsible person.

Regarding nudity, I really don't think that because we are born naked it means we have to learn being naked. Trust me, I might faint if i saw a granny walking naked. Also flashing is a crime that you can get arrested for. It does bother normal people that you show them what they don't need to see.

Bottom line, the only thing that defines us as human from animals is two things.  Brain and constraining our urges.

Not because you are naturally born with it or a natural part of you, it means you should unlimit it.  We all have the urge of sex (or spreading our genes) just like animals. Does this mean you should excuse your husband if he slept with his secretary. Imagine him saying "oh dear, sorry but that was natural"!!  and that is an urge, soemthing even stronger than just walking naked because I was born like that. If you are expected to control a natural urge in you, of course you should control exposing yourself.



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Well, I don't have any problem with well understood poliamory either. As you say well, ok,  it is a natural thing. There's nothing wrong about that, specially if there is consensus inside the couple on it (though some prefer not to know, I know). It's a complex matter anyhow but I won't be the one judging on such things. Anyhow, Islam condones poligynia, which is a machoist form of poliamory, why not poliandria or other imaginative variants?

Many cultures allow diferent kind of marriages and love out of marriage. If we're going to be truly cosmopolitan and open-minded we can't judge such practices.

You said that you would faint if you see an old lady naked. And I say you're truly a whimpy. It's not surely your fault but that of your education. What happens in Saudi Arabia: do they censor anthoropological documentaries when old (and young) people appear naked or almost? Not in my country luckily. You only have to travel to Sudan to find peoples like the Dinga that live their lives in total nudity. Climate helps of course.

But you can also come to Europe and visit some beaches to see people of all ages taking the sun and bathing in complete nudity without anybody caring much about it. It's not mainstream but it's ok. And has nothing to do with sex, at least in the common restricted acception of the term.

I don't think that what makes us humans are our brains and restricting our urges: in fact, animals also restrict their urges, at least those that are social: the dominant male will take care that other males do limit their needs. This disciplinary process is in fact very animal and not truly human, as one of the characteristics of our human brain is the increased capability for communication, what makes social life a lot more pleasant and consensual activity, at least potentially.

Anyhow, there's nothing wrong in being animal, a least now and then, unless it happen that you are a violent beast, in which case, for the sake of the community, society will need to take disciplinary measures.

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Originally posted by Maju

Well, I don't have any problem with well understood poliamory either. As you say well, ok,  it is a natural thing. There's nothing wrong about that, specially if there is consensus inside the couple on it (though some prefer not to know, I know). It's a complex matter anyhow but I won't be the one judging on such things.

If I understood you well, you are saying basically that you are fine with spouses having sex out of marraige?

The number one element in raising a healthy society is a healthy family. Otherwise, why governments are spending all that money in family support and dealing with high divorce rates.

Try to watch Jerrey Springer's show and see how pathetic it is filled with spouses who had sex out of marriage and got children who needs a DNA test and refusal of custody...etc   Or have you looked in the newspaper maybe and watched how many divorces are caused by cheating?

If you and your spouse are fine goofing around with other men and women, that is your choice, but try not to miss up with other people's spouses.

Originally posted by Maju

Anyhow, Islam condones poligynia, which is a machoist form of poliamory, why not poliandria or other imaginative variants?

I'm not sure what are you tring to say here. That Islam ignores or condones polygame?
no porque otras naciones hacen la poligynia, significa que tienen razón! (not because other nations do polygame, it means they are correct).


Originally posted by Maju

Many cultures allow diferent kind of marriages and love out of marriage. If we're going to be truly cosmopolitan and open-minded we can't judge such practices.

Siempre! Many cultures allow for a wife to be burned with her desceased husband. Does it mean we should watch it and admire that part of the culture and have an open mind about it???

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You said that you would faint if you see an old lady naked. And I say you're truly a whimpy. It's not surely your fault but that of your education.
 

You can call me a whimpy and i can call you a nuptial figher. However, I think most of today's human being don't appreciate you walking nude in public. If you are proud of your nudity, find a proper place maybe.

 

Originally posted by Maju

What happens in Saudi Arabia: do they censor anthoropological documentaries when old (and young) people appear naked or almost? Not in my country luckily..
 

My sister studys nursing and they have seen even videos of male private organs. No sanction is imposed on educational and special-purpose films.

 

Originally posted by Maju

But you can also come to Europe and visit some beaches to see people of all ages taking the sun and bathing in complete nudity without anybody caring much about it. It's not mainstream but it's ok. And has nothing to do with sex, at least in the common restricted acception of the term. ..
 

Thank you for your European style invitation. I have been to Europe and nude beaches are seperate from public beaches. In fact, you have to be of a certain age in order to enter those nude beaches, which means it has a negative impact on immatures and children.



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To prevent all those problems Napoleon had a remedy "the child born of a married woman is son of the husband" (Napoleonic code). I have another: support lone mothers and end with that anachronism of traditional family. 

If your wife wants to make love with me (this is a hypothetical case, of course, I only make love with people that I fall in love with - but I don't ask them their civil status anyhow), you may have objections but I don't see why I would have to worry. It is she who has to make her choices. It is her right.

Anyhow, polyamory is a fact, I don't know why to waste energies in prosecuting it. I'm against speding a cent in supporting family. The only thing that must be supported is motherhood, so children do have a reasonable good enviroment to grow in and women are not forced to become their husbands' slaves on economic grounds.

Many cultures allow for a wife to be burned with her desceased husband. Does it mean we should watch it and admire that part of the culture and have an open mind about it???


I don't admire that - I reject it as I reject burka, but I do admire naturality in allowing diferent types of relationships without making big deal of that.

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What is a nuptial fighter? First time I read or hear that term.

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You're wrong about nude beaches, at least here. There are beaches where nudism is not allowed (something I dispute) and there are others where it is (but being clothed is also allowed, paradoxically). No age requirement exists at all (though some old lascive men maybe should have their entrance forbidden, just maybe). As I said before female breast exposure in any kind of beaches is now a normal thing.

I'll tell you one story about my great-grandma Maximina. She was a traditional woman with a strong character. She used to go to the beach in her long and "very decent" underclothing and she also seemingly went hitting women in bikini with her cane saying them they were "shameless", etc.

She eventually got arrested, not for agression but for pulic scandal: for being dressed in underwear.

All this happened under the fundamentalist government of Franco.

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Originally posted by Maju

To prevent all those problems Napoleon had a remedy "the child born of a married woman is son of the husband" (Napoleonic code). I have another: support lone mothers and end with that anachronism of traditional family. 

Napoleon was not the initiator of children of married couples to be named after their husband. Supporting the mother is not the answer because that support has to come from somewhere. If you enjoyed your sex with her or not, sorry you have to support her child as it is a product of you. Plus, it is not the fault of the mother to be a single-parent. Social and Scientific studies has shown that children can have a severe mental and growth imbalance with single-parent uprising.

Originally posted by Maju

If your wife wants to make love with me (this is a hypothetical case, of course, I only make love with people that I fall in love with - but I don't ask them their civil status anyhow), you may have objections but I don't see why I would have to worry. It is she who has to make her choices. It is her right.

Then I think it is easier and wise to marry a prostitute. She has no objections with you goofing around and she will support the family financially too.

Originally posted by Maju

I'm against speding a cent in supporting family. The only thing that must be supported is motherhood, so children do have a reasonable good enviroment to grow in and women are not forced to become their husbands' slaves on economic grounds. .

Wether you and me like it or not, women need an external support especially during their pregenancy period and recovery period and the time they spend with their children at early ages. If you are opposing spending a cent in supporting a family, then who is going to support them? Government? They need to tax you for that, so you are going to support them no matter what. Or maybe the husband? Yes, he has an obligation. This child does not only belongs to the mother and deserves a normal stable life.


 

Originally posted by Maju

I don't admire that - I reject it as I reject burka, but I do admire naturality in allowing diferent types of relationships without making big deal of that.

I think you missed the point here. The point is that if other cultures do it, it does not mean it is correct or it is a part of the culture that we shall stay nuetral about. If you are opposing Burka for women rights, I oppose sex out of marriage as it has been proven the case most of the time the husband will escape his obligation leaving the women valnurable to many difficulties. Also, why would I support a child that is not mine? We are not hamsters who only produce with only motherhood support. 


 

Originally posted by Maju

What is a nuptial fighter? First time I read or hear that term.

Don't worry, Nuptial fighter is much politer than a whimpy. Nuptial fight is when males go and fight during the breeding seasons of various animals. I just loved classifying you a nuptial fighter as you might wait for your breeding season and excercise your mother nature-given right of breeding around with various females at the same time

Originally posted by Maju

You're wrong about nude beaches, at least here. There are beaches where nudism is not allowed (something I dispute) and there are others where it is (but being clothed is also allowed, paradoxically).

Im not sure about Spain, but Portsmouth, England, sets an age requirement for entering a nudist beach..

Originally posted by Maju

I'll tell you one story about my great-grandma Maximina.

Funny story. For me, I would like to tell you also a story but not as peaceful and funny as yours.

Nudism is nothing but a blanket for social decay. If it wasnt to encourage it, at leasts it covers it. As far as I recall, the well-known American nudist Jonathan Tampico  was convicted of child molester. He is known to frequent nudist camps and to use the preaching of family nudism and whole body acceptance to victimize male children. He is not on the "Caution List" of the American Association for Nude Recreation (past American Sunbathing Association).

Also in 1992, Joseph Robert Wanner, 39 years old and a substitute elementary school teacher; pro-feminist member of a university women's action committee; naturist; and articulate defender of abortion, animal, atheist, and Native American rights, was arrested at his home in Kutztown, Pennsylvania. Mr. Wanner was charged with 14 counts of rape, 14 counts of statutory rape, 12 counts of involuntary deviate sexual intercourse, 3 counts of corruption of minors, 19 counts of sexual abuse of children for the production and manufacturing of child pornography, 144 counts of child sex abuse for possession of child pornography, 17 counts of indecent assault, 6 counts of aggravated indecent assault, and 1 count of voluntary deviate sexual intercourse (with a cat).  

Copies of the police reports are available on http://www.nostatusquo.com/ACLU/NudistHallofShame/Tampico.ht ml



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the topic is discussing on Court Backs Turkish Headscarf Ban...

I just wondering... why the turks law is banning headscarf wearing?? are they denying  Islam practices and muslims right in carrying their obligation according to their faith? If the country is claiming tht they are practicising democracy policies and acknowledge human rights...then they shouldnt ban the headscarft wearing.. if they are denying ISlam's laws at least they should respect individual rights and it is the person choice to select wht he or she is going to wear in order to follow him or her religion demand... this is so strange...

For other people who is not a muslim... well headscarft wearing maybe not important for you guys... but me as a muslim.. to wear headscarft is a compulsory. in islam a woman must cover her hair from non family member or those men who she can be married to.. once u married to tht person.. thn feel free to do whtever u wish to...

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Social and Scientific studies has shown that children can have a severe mental and growth imbalance with single-parent uprising.

This is not true. It is known that such children grow up quite normal.

What are you trying to show us by those examples? I am an atheist and I support feminism. Do you claim that we are less moral than religious people?

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This is not true. It is known that such children grow up quite normal.

No, empirial studies show just the oppsite to what is claimed now. I will copy myself from another thread in which we touched over this issue.

http://www.allempires.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=6979& ; ; ;PN=1

Sure, in this case, the social dimension of a family is the best illustrative example of family's importance. To be precise, research on single parenting indicated earlier that separation or divorce only had short-term effects, more recent research suggests the effect can be more lasting.

For instance, researchers in Sweden observed between 1991 and 1998 for more than 65,000 children in single-parent households and more than 920,000 children in households with two parents.

After adjusting for other factors, children with a lone parent were found to be twice as likely to have a psychiatric disease compared to their two-parent counterparts. They were also at double the risk for suicide attempts and for alcohol-related diseases. The chances of drug abuse were three times as high among girls and four times as high among boys in single-parent households. Boys in single-parent households were more likely than girls to develop psychiatric and narcotics-related problems and were also more likely to die of any cause.

http://www.hon.ch/News/HSN/511438.html

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What are you trying to show us by those examples? I am an atheist and I support feminism. Do you claim that we are less moral than religious people?

To be precise, what examples?

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  Quote Beylerbeyi Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 16-Nov-2005 at 18:32

Your article says the results were not normalised for all factors. Most single-parent families are poor, because the parent does not have support. If they were not poor, things would have been different. Also, I have seen research which gives different results than this before.

To be precise, what examples?

The example at the end of your previous post. I am asking you if you believe that there is a connection between that person's deviant sexual behaviour and him being an atheists' and feminists' rights supporter? 

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  Quote ok ge Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 16-Nov-2005 at 18:48

Originally posted by Beylerbeyi

Your article says the results were not normalised for all factors. Most single-parent families are poor, because the parent does not have support. If they were not poor, things would have been different. Also, I have seen research which gives different results than this before.

I don't see where it says the results were not normalized for all factors. In fact it says clearly "After adjusting for other factors, children with a lone parent were found to be twice ...."

Also, it admits that other contradicting articles exist, however not in the size of this study or even closer.

Regarding that if a single parent can succeed if financial and educational support is given, Im sure it did exist. However, we are discussing the norms and not the exceptions. I quote myself from the same thread:

The only difference is that the responsibility is normally divided and no burden is imposed on a single parent.

While some single parents succeeded in offsetting the challenge, the general trend from imperial studies shows that most single-parents fails in keeping up that shortage.

 

Originally posted by Beylerbeyi

The example at the end of your previous post. I am asking you if you believe that there is a connection between that person's deviant sexual behaviour and him being an atheists' and feminists' rights supporter? 

Both of the two examples were given in regards to Nudism. The fact that he was an athiest just a state of the fact, positions, and roles he was involved with, including being a teacher and an animal right supporter.

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  Quote azimuth Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 16-Nov-2005 at 23:27
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Originally posted by azimuth


which means they are wearing veils already and need to cover their chests aswell.


It is assumed that they wear headscarfs as that was apparently customary among Arabic Pagans. You are trying to use this accidental mention of a Pagan custom to enforce it in the name of Islam. I find it a total aberration.

The headscarf Arab wore before Islam is different than the one women had to wear after Islam.

that the first one was not actully covering the hair, it was mostly used as a type of sun and environment protection, women also used it as a beauty accessory, with more colors and gold hanging on it.

the one Islam ordered women to wear is different , that it has to cover all the hair and the neck and to be less attracting when the women is out of their homes.

and iam not using anything here which is not being used through history.

AS i said earlier when any verse comes with an order for muslims to follow the usual practice is to see what did the prophet and his companions reacted to such verse.

the way they delt with such verses IS the way the Verse is has to be understood  as simple as that.

you dont come now after all these years and to tell us that the Quran was misunderstood and you the wise one after 14 centures found out the truth !

the way the Prophet and his companions dealt with the Orders in the Quran is the exact action required by the Quran.

 

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the order is clear enough, people who doesnt know much about the religion and its history would aruge about these things. half knowlege is worse than ignorance.



One can't know about everything. But I try to understand. Yet the more I understand Islam the less I like it. It seems a cult, in the worst sense of the term: mixing religion and politics since its origins, trying to get women back to the dark ages, threatening those that decide to abandon the sect...

Ugly.

i didnt say one can know or cant know, i said half knowledge is worse than ignorance,

that when you base your actions and decision on such poor or incomplete knowledge about certain matter.

and about the dark ages story, well if you are intersted i advice you to keep getting more infos and read more about how women treated through history and how are they actully treated now FROM DIFFERENT angles and not from one community and one source.

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On the questionof interpreting the Koran: if you are going to claim that the original Arabic has to be translated so that it can be understood by people today (including today's Arab speakers) then what you are taching is no longer the word of God but the word of the translator.

Interpretations of the Koran are no more valid as Koranic truths than the translations of Christ's teachings in the King James version are valid as Christian truths.

They are both the work of men.

(The Christians get out of this to some extent thanks to the doctrine of the Holy Ghost, but Muslims can't claim that.)

 

iam not claiming that the original arabic has to be transilated to be understood by Arabs today, we Arabs read the quran as it is when it first came.

the thing is that there are some words which are not popular today and not clear to many people and we have Arabic/Arabic Dictionaries for these words. similar to the English/English ones.

also it is known that the Quran has deep meanings which are transilated through the Actions of the Prophet and His close Companions after him.

these Actions ARE the ones the Islamic Scholars used to give more details about certain verses.

so the comparision between the Quran and the bible is weak, that the first bible is not the same as the ONES available today.

Muslims dont treat the transilations of the Quran as Quran.

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I tried to stay out of this topic (redundant) but now I have an urge to say a thing or two.

Two issues: Turkey banning head scarfs; and Islamic understanding of sentences that some choose to accept as 'headscarf'.

By making this first point short and sweet, I'll say that Turkey has been on the defensive against fundamentalism from the beginning of the Republic. Part of the developement of it's political culture consisted on clarifying it's language, doctrines and state authority. The headscarf issue falls under this catagory. It is a secular (laik) law refraining from wearing it while in and on governmental duty and university settings. Other then that, the headscarf is allowed anywhere else. Opinions currently vary on the headscarf banning and the accompanying impact it has had. I think that the government is being protectionist. If and when governmental ideology matures further, dependant on percieved or legitamate threats to its constitution, then the headscarf situation will not be such a grave issue.

well obviously this law is not being enforced as you are saying, less than a month ago the Turkish President made a party in his residence and didnt invite the women from some political parties because they wear head scarf and made an announcement that this place wont allow any women with head scarf to enter it. !! how can this be a governmental duty and university settings???

and how would you make this as a law while a huge percentage of the population are against it? very democratic huh?

they are calling themselvs secular and Muslims at the same time and so strict about a peice of extra cloths a woman wants to wear on her head. i wonder if they acctuly pray and if they do  what do they wear? i mean the female ones.

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Originally posted by azimuth

the Scholars are not making or saying anything new here, they are more like collectors of the events and what the prophet did, what his companion understood from each verse and how did they obay any orders mentioned in the Quran.

so abou the Hejab or Head scarf, most of the scholars has mentioned that when this order came women started covering their hairs and neck. starting from the prophet's wifes.

so its clear that they understood the verse as an order to cover their hair with a veil as an order not as a suggestion from God.

Many scholars had already wore the headscarf prior to turning moslem. Jewish and Christian women had already done so in their past. The moslems borrowed this tradition to the tee. Same for most Arab men and women prior to Muhammed. They wore hijab as a custom. Not because of their own religious beliefs.

dont know how you can use the christian and the jewish wearing of hijab against the using of hijab to musilms?

these two religions are supposed to be the same in line with islam and as per muslims belive that these religions were corrupted and changed by its people, so having some wearing hijabs can be considered one of the things which werent changed or corrupted.

and as i mentioned above the wearing of head scarf before islam is not as it is after islam.

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The order for the prophets wives to cover themselves are the following: 

-  [7:26] "O children of Adam, we have provided you with garments to cover your bodies, as well as for luxury. But the best
garment is the garment of righteousness. These are some of GOD's signs, that they may take heed."

- [24:31]

"And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and keep covered their private parts, and that they should not show-off their beauty except what is apparent, and let them cast their shawls over their cleavage..." 

Which means they should (Khimar) cover their chests.

- [33:59] "O prophet, tell your wives, your daughters, and the wives of the believers that they shall LENGTHEN their
garments. Thus, they will be recognized and avoid
being insulted. God is Forgiver, Most Merciful."

The Arabic words used for cover are "KHuMuR" (to cover). One can cover a floor with a rug and cover a chest with clothing for example. In 24:31 "fel yedribne 'they shall put, they shall cover' is used. However in verse 33:59 "fel yudnine 'they shall lengthen' is used. The first is to cover the bossom and the next one is to lenghten garments. Specifically varied phrases for different sentences carry meanings appropriate to each context. 

The word 'Hijab' was not used. The words for 'hair' was not even used in the above aya (verses). The word "Hijab" appears in the Quran 7 times, five of them as "Hijab" and two times as "Hijaban," these are 7:46, 33:53, 38:32, 41:5, 42:51, 17:45 & 19:17. Yet none of those are in the context of a dress code. 

In summary and contrary to what was suggested by others, covering hair is not a commandment.

lol

how is that in the contrary?

how did you assume that these verses were for the prophet wives?

did you even check the reasons behind these verses and when they came on which occations and what the muslims DID in order to follow these verses??

i can see you are using different meanings of the words in the quran i wonder which dictionary you are using.

also the word hijab has more than one meaning.

you cant just make up a conclution by yourself and deciede that these verses where for prophet's wives.

Originally posted by Seko

 

as i said it is Clear in Arabic, also The Quran came in Arabic language the exact one the people used to talk 1400 years ago. which means they would understand it much much faster and easier than today's Arab may do.

The Quran is still clear. 

[12:2] "We have sent it down an Arabic Quran, perhaps you will comprehend."

People of the past and present can still analyze the Quran. It is not the domain of past scholars to interprete it only.

Muslim scholars have many opinions about women that are often degrading and insulting. i.e.- comparisons to dogs, can't pray at certain times, abominations, etc. Though such scholars have much good to say too, I still focus on the negative to highlight the rediculous beliefs that still exist in the muslim mentality.

The Quran, on the other hand, permits men and woman to eat together or to help each other (24:61; 3:195; 9:71). The Quran provides several examples of women being active role models in their societies and were interacting with men, such as Abraham's wife (11:69-71; 60:4-6), Muslim women in Madyan with one whom Moses married (28:23-28), the Queen of Sheba who later surrenders to the will of God (27:34:40), and Mary (19:16-30; 3:42-43; 66:11-12). Muslim women were so outspoken that they could engage in debate with Muhammad (28:23-28), and women pledged allegiance and voted for Muhammad's leadership (60:12).

With respect to all the believers we still have the duty to enhance social rights and question inhibiting actions that impact the standards of living for all sexes. Modesty has been encouraged. But fear and insecurity (secular or traditional Islamic) can and should take a back seat to open discussions and freedoms. 

 

what i meant from my quote which you used is that the quran came in the same exact languge as the Arab spoke that time WHICH means that it was understood by them faster and the Actions they took were the accurate ones regarding any order in any verse.

Arabs today do understand the Quran easly too but as you can see to know the exact requrement of certain verses Muslims had to check through history What the early muslims did when such order or requirenmt came.

iam not saying Arabs dont know what is written in the Quran unless they transtlate it. we do know whats written there and for more details about certain matter a history must be used

a simple example the prayers werent mentioned in details in the Quran.

how would you know that you  are praying as God wanted?!

it was explained by the Prophet as he said Pray as you saw me Pray.

 

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you dont come now after all these years and to tell us that the Quran was misunderstood and you the wise one after 14 centures found out the truth !


Why not? (Inside your scheme) I am as much Allah's creation and Allah's intention as you or Mohammed himself. If I can discuss Christian religion with Jesuit priests (and put them in quite dificult situations), I can also discuss Islam with mullahs or Hindusim with babas. I don't need to believe in it to discuss it. If you don't like it you can found your own private "banana club" with restricted access.

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  Quote azimuth Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 17-Nov-2005 at 00:56

what are you talking about?

discuss whatever you like anywhere, that quote is not a complain or a restriction or anything.

you misunderstood what i meant obviously and happily tried to make fun of it >>><<< and another one for the "banana club"  suggestion here it is >><<

anyway

i meant you dont expect people to belive you on your claims with few knowledge you got from reading a transilted verses, and not caring about what people did through history from their understanding to such verses.

its wiser to take into account why others did such actions regarding such orders and didnt do what you see as obviouse order.

 

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If your wife wants to make love with me (this is a hypothetical case, of course, I only make love with people that I fall in love with - but I don't ask them their civil status anyhow), you may have objections but I don't see why I would have to worry. It is she who has to make her choices. It is her right.

Then I think it is easier and wise to marry a prostitute. She has no objections with you goofing around and she will support the family financially too.

While I have nothing against prostitutes, I have a lot against the people who use them and abuse them. So I would never be that kind of "guy", the shame of my gender. Paying for sex... what a misery!

But I've been with polyamorous people and it's fine. Better than jealous ultra-monogamous ones. And not that I'm a particularly polyamorous person, I think I'm rather monogamous but I hate the feeling of being limited.


Originally posted by Maju

I don't admire that - I reject it as I reject burka, but I do admire naturality in allowing diferent types of relationships without making big deal of that.

I think you missed the point here. The point is that if other cultures do it, it does not mean it is correct or it is a part of the culture that we shall stay nuetral about. If you are opposing Burka for women rights, I oppose sex out of marriage as it has been proven the case most of the time the husband will escape his obligation leaving the women valnurable to many difficulties. Also, why would I support a child that is not mine? We are not hamsters who only produce with only motherhood support.

I'm not placing cultural diversity as any ideal. I'm just putting cultural examples of diferent morals. Some I like, others are indiferent and the most violent and represive are hateful to me.

I would have no problem supporting children that aren't biologically "mine", assumed I love their mother. But, just in case let's the state or community make sure that lone mothers have means for a worthy survival, so the kids (and the mothers) are not negatively affected by any marital problems.

The couple is not any contract for bringing kids it is a matter of love between two persons (more persons wouldn't be a couple ). When love is dead, and, sorry, but life sucks sometimes and love can't be bought, the family (understood as mother + children) still need means to survive with dignity and for that the state or community must provide if they want to promote a reasonable demographic stability/growth compatible with the rights of women.


Originally posted by Maju

What is a nuptial fighter? First time I read or hear that term.

Don't worry, Nuptial fighter is much politer than a whimpy. Nuptial fight is when males go and fight during the breeding seasons of various animals. I just loved classifying you a nuptial fighter as you might wait for your breeding season and excercise your mother nature-given right of breeding around with various females at the same time

You have some funny strange ideas about people who doesn't follow your schemes. Nuptial fight is not the idea I have of attraction and love, it's more a man-woman bilateral thing. When I see strong competition I know it's time to go (not because I fear any fight but because I know when I am in excess and find "nuptial competition" ridiculous). After all it's just an affair. If there's something strong there's not any of that competition, though there can be affairs always. Why to put limits to Eros?

Originally posted by Maju

You're wrong about nude beaches, at least here. There are beaches where nudism is not allowed (something I dispute) and there are others where it is (but being clothed is also allowed, paradoxically).

Im not sure about Spain, but Portsmouth, England, sets an age requirement for entering a nudist beach..

Next time you are in Porstmouth take the ferry to Bilbao.

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I'll tell you one story about my great-grandma Maximina.

Funny story. For me, I would like to tell you also a story but not as peaceful and funny as yours.

Nudism is nothing but a blanket for social decay. If it wasnt to encourage it, at leasts it covers it. As far as I recall, the well-known American nudist Jonathan Tampico  was convicted of child molester. He is known to frequent nudist camps and to use the preaching of family nudism and whole body acceptance to victimize male children. He is not on the "Caution List" of the American Association for Nude Recreation (past American Sunbathing Association).

Also in 1992, Joseph Robert Wanner, 39 years old and a substitute elementary school teacher; pro-feminist member of a university women's action committee; naturist; and articulate defender of abortion, animal, atheist, and Native American rights, was arrested at his home in Kutztown, Pennsylvania. Mr. Wanner was charged with 14 counts of rape, 14 counts of statutory rape, 12 counts of involuntary deviate sexual intercourse, 3 counts of corruption of minors, 19 counts of sexual abuse of children for the production and manufacturing of child pornography, 144 counts of child sex abuse for possession of child pornography, 17 counts of indecent assault, 6 counts of aggravated indecent assault, and 1 count of voluntary deviate sexual intercourse (with a cat).  


This is ridiculous! Do you know how many Catholic priests have been prosecuted and convicted for pederasty in the last years only in the USA? And I'm sure this is not privative of that sect. Mixing nudism and pederasty seems to me totally absurd. I don't deny that there are some perverts around in all kind of enviroments but I don't make of child abuse my banner against religion. I think that most Catholics (or Muslims for the case) are not such kind of people.

Anyhow, I have also a recipe against rapists, including child abusers, surgical castration. They will be still able to live normal lives but they won't have anymore those urges that they don't know how to manage. It's quite a compassive and effective measure and I wonder why it is not applied everywhere already.


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