Here's a nice travelogue on modern day Turkey by a BBC reporter:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/europe/3998619.stm
Check the links to the right of the page.
I think that there're two Turkeys. Westernized West Turkey which may be a part of EU after some legislative changes and separation of State/Military from economic life. Eastern Turkey which is waaaaay back, closer to Midle Eastern standards in all aspects and cannot possibly be accepted in its present status.
Because of that 2nd part, Turkey will not be accepted in the EU any time soon. A status of "connection" will be acceptable for most EU countries but nothing more than this. I think that also Turkey understands that it's not ready and that it wont be for many years to come.
Pitty, because Greece would benefit a lot economicaly by Turkey's entrance.