Lessons learned from women

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   LESSONS learned from WOMEN

Women
pass down their knowledge to the next generation in various ways.
While, certainly, knowledged passed from mother to daughter is more
intensive and expansive than that passed from mother to son, both
genders of children generally learn a great deal from their mothers.

What they learn is often a reflection of the woman they learned it from
and the society she grew up in, so please share some of the powerful or
unusual or even amusing lessons the women of your family have passed on
to you.

From my mother, the most important lesson I learned was to live a good
life because if all those who died early could trade places with me,
they'd change the world.

From my grandmother the lessons have been less useful but equally important in my life. I've shared a few before.

I learned not to eat during Ramadan. ("Get that f--king pastry out of
your goddamn mouth before the neighbors think we're a bunch of pagans!")

I learned virginity is a commodity, even when you no longer have it.
("It was all I could do to raise you with your legs closed and for
what? A Croat?")

I learned misery is admirable. ("I don't know who the hell told your
generation you've got the right to be happy. It's not possible and it
annoys the sh-t out of everyone else anyways.")

I learned your achievements are not measured against what you could
have done, but what everyone else did. ("You got 52 per cent? Well,
what did Adnisa get?")

I learned farting in public is alright. ("What was that? Speak again, oh great toothless wonder!")

I learned the element of surprise is confusing for Bosnians. ("Well,
when I saw you coming up the front steps, I tell you - I didn't know
whether to sh-t or go blind!")

I learned nothing you do is ever good enough. ("No one gives a sh-t
about Nena. I'm here with three kilos of meat on ice and I eat broth
because I've no one to visit me, no one to cook for!")