Your perception on L.O.V.E

There is a saying : To live in a marriage means a sequence of misunderstandings..

Originally posted by The Canadian Guy I love some women for their looks, personality, sexual charm, intellects, and athleticism.  Other than that....I am ok with allot of women.

so u prove me right

I really don't put much thought into it. I just think love as a meaning of appreciation of someone. I love my friends and family, I've yet to feel anything beyond that. But thats fine with my, I'm always optimistic and never depressed. If I were to get anymore happier then I am now by meeting girl, then I think every worry in the world would be gone. Not sure that kinda feeling exists though. I'll look for it though!

I've seen it work in the movies, I haven't seen it happen in real life yet. What I have seen is attraction causing two to get together, and then I've heard stories of the two having a special moment that could have been written from a movie.  

Cahaya, I understood what you say about women not seeing the persons but an idea. This is because society educates girls to prepare for being pleasantful for their further partner, while boys are educated to be turned to themselves, so they see women as their equals.

But also the men hardly can pass beyond the sexual wishes because they usually start their sexual life with masturbation and society (by movies, books etc) indoctrinates them that there is no love without sex. Also they are not used to struggle against their lust, for this you need a religious based life.

Anyway, I think that a woman can harder live without sex than a man because they can harder controll their phantasmes and because only by sex they can in a measure understand the other gender. I observed that nuns that never had had sex have personality disorders at advanced ages but the solution is not to have sex but to understand how a man perceive the existence.


As I said in an older topic, I think the orgasm destroy little by little the human personality, the acuity of senses and the conscience of self-identity. Those who didn't had sexual life, like monks and nuns, preserve their spiritual integrity until any age. I'm not against sexual relations but they don't have to be for pleasure but for children birth or as spiritual act of becomeing one with your partner.

I know you are asking more personal point of view but I'm just gonna suggest a book and quote it a few, if that's Ok.....   I will try to give more personal view later.

 

 

that warm fuzzy feeling and total excitement I get whenever I see this person log on

Hehe I hope she is, all I know of her is what her Blood Elf looks like and that she does have dark hair IRL lol

Originally posted by Menumorot The purpose of existence is the hapiness, so rules as Ako and King came with are senseless. The hapiness in love come from a beautiful love story but for that you have to live beautiful, like a fool, not like a sedentary robot.

It's obvious.. for those who are in love.. always act as a fool & breaking all the rules.. dont they?

Here like to share with u guys an interesting link: http://www.geocities.com/treasure_for_sumaya/truelove.htm

(warning: better turn of ur speaker coz it has the lamest background music!)

And there is a poem from the webpage said..

A lover asked his beloved, Do you love yourself more Than you love me? The beloved replied, I have died to myself And I live for you. I've disappeared from myself And my attributes. I am present only for you I have forgotten all my learnings, But from knowing you I have become a scholar. I have lost all my strength, But from your power I am able.

Originally posted by Spartakus I know that i have not loved yet. I know it.

No worry.. coz noone is perfect.. .. just kidding..

KKM.. wht's ur personal opinion?


Edited by cahaya - 21-Dec-2008 at 19:00