The Objectification of Sex

Originally posted by SuN. Pre marital sex is not bad biologically. What may be bad may be the circumstances leading to it, or the effects after it. The normal marriage is 25-35 (In Asia) In the West, it may be higher & some people in the West I have heard dont like to get married at all. The age of puberty is in the teens. What is a person supposed to do in this big time gap? IF nature has given something at a particular time, there must be a purpose to it. If an unmarried person feels like having sex, it is not he who is to blame, The fault lies with the nature or God or whatever.

Not too sure what to make of this... why "blame" anybody? These are facts of life. Human beings get bored of the same sexual partner day in and day out. Not having been in too many long term relationships myself, and the few I have having fallen victim to lack of interest after the first few couple of months, I can tell you that there is definitely a certain type of person who grows bored with the status quo, if looked at from any angle. Besides, you only live once... I don't want to say 'live well,' but live 'fully.' Never say 'no' to a good time, I always say. Go out, get off the fargin' computer, and actively partake in the random chaos that is life... besides, gents, she's out there, just waiting for you to light her smoke or buy her a drink... step up to the plate. You might just hit a home run.

Motivational, etc.
BJC

Welcome to the liberal camp, my comrade. Let's break down the barricades and encourage people to behave like humans.
Cheers.

Originally posted by Northman Interesting topic guys.   I can tell quite a few posters having a hard time respecting a girl who is having sex (pre- or outside marriage). Let me ask you, is she in any way less virtuos than the guy she is having sex with? Or is this acceptable for a guy?

Eh, I see infidelity as a natural function of the human felicity. I've started plenty of conversations with girls who have boyfriends. When they tell me that they're taken, I just tell them, "Sweetie, I'm not jealous" and conduct the rest of the affair as if they're single. Just because they have a boyfriend doesn't mean they're some alabaster saint on a pedestal. Hell, those are some of the best girls to get together with sometimes... you get a clean slate, unlike the marked chalkboards they to bring to bed with their significant others. Human beings are unfaithful animals... that's why there are so many more stories of betrayal then there are fidelity, and why we list fidelity so high up on the list of traits in a significant other...  because its one that's so hard to find.
Realist, etc.
BJC

By the way, for men, tolerancy to infidelity is directly proportional to the beauty of women. The more beautiful they are, men become suddenly quite undestanding, and forgive everything 

The "probability of retaining Virginity" is inversely proportional to the "lack of Opportunity".

Edited by SuN. - 05-Nov-2007 at 03:03

Originally posted by longshanks31 so many pretty women such little time, if you can get it then why not, life is for living, philosophy wise i am a hedonist so i would say these things. If its between two consenting adults (more if your adventurous) then why not. i remember a  quote "he lived his life best he who enjoyed it the most"   I will not deny myself any pleasure on the basis of religious morals, im an atheist, to me religious morals are just rules made up by men to interupt my fun and pleasure.   There is nothing wrong in it, ive never seen hugh heftner with a frown and its rare you will see me with one either.

We're passengers on the same ship. Live your life how you see fit, and when people start preaching at you, you can smile inwardly and know that they haven't the slightest clue as to what they're talking about... or what they're missing.

And I think hot girls are less likely to stay virgins as long as ugly ones... algebra is always so confusing, ain't it?

And I think hot girls are less likely to stay virgins as long as ugly ones... algebra is always so confusing, ain't it?

I think you'd be very wrong on that one.
Hot girls are picky, because they know they can be, and typically have fewer boyfriends later. Ugly girls grab the first boy they can and hold on as tight as they can.

The better looking ones do tend to go all the way first, because they generally have more opportunity to do so.