I was born in Baltimore, Maryland, a pro confederate city in a union majority state. I would be pro union and would support Maryland remaining in the union. I would also not support the use of force against those states wishing to leave (as sesession was not illegal).
If forced to actively support one side or the other, I would probably have supported the confederacy as I would not want to participate in an invasion / occupation of what were then considered to be sovereign states.
Edited by Cryptic - 19-May-2012 at 22:28